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Sir, I am 25 yrs. Old. I am in Love with a boy outside my Religion, He is not a Hindu. My Parents are not allowing me to get married to him because our Kundli do not match. They say there is no Match-Making between u both. Please suggest me something…!!
Girl, Try to talk-it-out with your Parents because in our today’s generation there is no such thing as match-making when girl and boy decides to get married our even match their Kundli. This is 21st Century.
I totally agree with Prime’s point of view. Do British, American’s, English People Decides to get Marry is there any Match-Making Process. Or Country is falling behind where some people don’t even their Rights especially when it comes to Women. We live in Democratic Country; still we don’t have a freedom of Speech. We need to Educate People to Stop this, put some sense into them.
All I can say that if u both is ready for what u wants is getting married and settled down than u shouldn’t look further.
All the Best..!!Well, look u are entitled to your Opinions and feel free to share but I would like to highlight some of your remarks that u just mentioned here Brother, first of all we Don’t Live in U.S.A. or Even England We are Indians, a land of Festivals,Culutures that has revolutionized us for Ages. It has become a tradition since 70’s or 80’s or whatever you want to call it. I endorse this fully concept of match-making but u are right about the rights and freedom of speech and expression but we don’t need to go their there because that will cause another huge controversial views and start another Debate.
:- I tried to be reason with my Parents, and explained them everything. Boy is nice he has a good job and well employed in a multi-national company. I am also working, I have my ownArtGallery I+ I do Interior Designing of Houses on contractual basis which keeps my life busy also and I enjoy what I do and the boy supports my work too. We both are well employed, and we both love& respect each other, is it Fair that we just throw our lives because our Match-Making isn’t Working..!!
Time is everything. As it passes by as we have seen in this generation who don’t believe in astrology, match-making, or such as Vastu. Then the day isn’t far when people from old generations will not believe in this stuff anymore. Let’s hope for the Best.
I hope u are right Mike, will talk to them again and be reason with them. Because I have suffered a lot due to extreme attachment and self-commitment involving my unquestioning and almost unshakable (to the point of being unreasoning blind) care and respect for My Parents.
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